Counselling Using Minecraft (ages 11+)

Taking your child to counselling might raise various concerns. Here are two common reasons why this process might feel challenging:

1. You might feel that your child’s therapy may expose your mistakes and shortcomings as a parent or that you’ve done ‘wrong’ and are now to blame for the situation your child is in.

2. You might see counselling as a ‘fix’ to what you see as ‘bad’ behaviour in your child, whether it’s self-harm, angry outbursts, substance misuse, or being disrespectful. It can be frustrating if the counsellor doesn’t share your views on what needs to happen, especially as you’re paying for the sessions! This can be especially true in separation or divorce situations where the ‘other’ partner might disagree on the need for counselling or what happens in counselling.

With both these points, it is important to recognise that a counsellor’s priority is with your child and not you as parents. The counsellor’s goal is to understand and help your child in expressing their feelings in a healthier and more appropriate manner. Teenagers look for ways to understand and come to terms with their rapidly changing selves and are often glad to find someone they can do this alongside with who is able to support them in a safe environment without judgement.

The acknowledgement of their experiences and emotions can help them improve self-esteem and self-awareness. Counselling helps your child develop healthier coping mechanisms and communication skills, equipping them with the tools to navigate challenges and relationships more effectively. Ultimately, this promotes their overall well-being and mental health.